{"id":80545,"date":"2019-10-01T04:33:39","date_gmt":"2019-10-01T04:33:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.davidvalois.com\/?p=80545"},"modified":"2022-02-19T10:14:13","modified_gmt":"2022-02-19T09:14:13","slug":"how-to-be-confident","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.davidvalois.com\/how-to-be-confident\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Be Confident [101 Fast Tips]"},"content":{"rendered":"

Do you want to discover how to be confident?<\/p>\n

You will agree with me when I say:<\/p>\n

With self-confidence<\/strong> you will boost your life in seconds<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Imagine yourself:<\/p>\n

…Speaking in public.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

…Asking that girl for a date<\/strong> (and doing it right).<\/em><\/p>\n

…Earning 7 figures<\/strong> thanks to being bolder in business.<\/em><\/p>\n

…Winning lifelong friends<\/strong> at a party or congress.<\/em><\/p>\n

Imagine you being fearless!<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

How to be confident<\/h2>\n

And therefore I will give you 100 tips to get unbreakable self-confidence. Calm in the storm. Rejection won\u2019t affect you. Everybody will admire<\/strong> you.<\/p>\n

It\u00b4s possible.<\/p>\n

Your life can be epic!<\/p>\n

Yet now you feel frustrated…<\/p>\n

Many times you have the opportunity… and finally you hesitate.<\/p>\n

Goodbye to the woman, men, or career of your dreams!<\/p>\n

99% Of people never achieve their goals because they don\u00b4t know how to be confident.<\/p>\n

Enough!<\/p>\n

Are you also tired of losing opportunities?<\/p>\n

Then I will give you 100<\/strong> FAST TIP<\/strong>S <\/strong>to get <\/strong>confident<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

It will be like reading the best self-confidence books<\/h2>\n

If you know how to be confident you will transform your life today.<\/p>\n

Simply choose one of those 100 tips that fits you. (I\u00b4ve helped hundreds of my clients to lose build confidence with them.)<\/p>\n

Don\u00b4t you have time to read the list?  Ok, then simply follow this tip:<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be ashamed of having fear. You are not alone. The sports stars, the Gandhis, and the Michelangelos, also had fear like you. <\/p>\n

But they knew how to be confident. <\/strong>Like you after reading this article.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

So the fastest way to build SELF-CONFIDENCE is simply knowing that everybody has fear.<\/strong><\/h2>\n

And it\u2019s not too late for you<\/strong>!<\/p>\n

Whether you are now too shy, too old, or too short, if you wanto to with all your heart learn how to be confident, you will find the tip that better fits your personality. You\u00b4ll benefit instantly from it.<\/p>\n

Because ANY of these tips will change your life. <\/p>\n

But don\u2019t lose time, the reward is too big. So, Congratulations in advance for reading this.<\/p>\n

You will live great stories!<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

Exclusive Bonus:<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you want to download the complete article in PDF<\/strong> CLICK HERE<\/strong><\/p>\n

 –> <\/strong>HOW TO BE CONFIDENT: 100 WAYS<\/strong><\/a> <–<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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First my definition of self-confidence: <\/strong><\/h2>\n

(I have my own personal definition on how to be confident, not politically correct, sorry.) <\/p>\n

“Self-confidence is being bold like after a bottle of vodka, <\/em><\/p>\n

but with a clear brain and without the health effects.”<\/em><\/p>\n

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And now your 100<\/strong> tips:<\/p>\n

1. BEHIND FEAR IS YOUR BIGGEST SUCCESS<\/strong><\/h2>\n

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If something scares you, it’s good. The man or woman of your dreams won\u2019t appear if you are comfortable. The project that will make you rich also will scare you. So your strategy is simple: if it scares you, you are in front of a great opportunity to build your self-confidence.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

2. THE BEST TIP ON HOW TO BE CONFIDENT IS…<\/strong><\/h2>\n

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KNOWING OTHER\u00b4S FEAR!<\/strong><\/p>\n

You are not alone. If you observe others you will see they also have fear. And more than you, Yet your advantage is that you a taking action to gain confidence (otherwise you wouldn\u2019t read this).<\/p>\n

Only by trying, you will get bolder<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

 3. <\/strong>YOUR BEST QUOTE TO BECOME CONFIDENT: IF YOU TRY TO BE SELF-CONFIDENT AND LOSE, YOU ALSO WIN<\/strong><\/h2>\n

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Only good things wait behind fear. If you try and fail, it\u2019s good. So don\u2019t focus on the result. Focus on your new knowledge, something 95% of people will never get.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

4. EVERYBODY HAD LACK IN SELF-CONFIDENCE FIRST <\/strong>(ESPECIALLY THE PEOPLE YOU ADMIRE)<\/strong><\/h2>\n

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The Joe Montanas, the Gandhis, the Michelangelos, or any talented person you admire also had fear. They failed and got rejected. But they continued facing fear. Self-discipline<\/a> was the difference.<\/p>\n

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5. THE OPTION OF NOT TRYING IS BEING UNHAPPY<\/strong><\/h2>\n

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There is a bottleneck you must cross. Fear. Yet the other option is not achieving your dream and getting old fast.<\/p>\n

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6. BOOST YOUR CONFIDENCE KNOWING THAT FEAR IS AN INHERITED MECHANISM (<\/strong>LIKE BEING HUNGRY)<\/strong><\/h2>\n

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You aren\u00b4t inferior. Fear is in your DNA. It was developed more than 100.000 years ago when we had to hunt to survive. So it\u2019s stupid neglecting it.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

7. HOW TO BE CONFIDENT FAST? FIRST MASTER SENSING FEAR<\/strong><\/h2>\n

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If you want to know how to be confident fast, first you must feel fear, sorry. People pursue self-confident as it were the Holy Grail. But to become self-confident, first you must go through fear. First you must touch that imposing dog and speak with that imposing person. Only then you will see it\u2019s possible and become self-confident.<\/p>\n

Saying you have no fear is bragging, as most people do, but so they only hide their problem and make it bigger.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

8. ARE YOU AT YOU LOWEST POINT?IT\u00b4S A VERY GOOD PLACE TO START TO GET CONFIDENT<\/strong><\/h2>\n

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Desperation can be the best thing that happens to you. Because there you see a 100% pure quality truth. A so agonizing truth, that you will dedicate body and soul to your highest goal.<\/p>\n

On the bottom I stopped lying to myself, and from there I took action. And my life changed much faster starting from zero. There I took the exact measures. I didn\u2019t say \u201cI\u2019m going to do better.\u201d<\/em> I took the specific measures, read the specific books, and developed the specific skills. I stopped lying to myself. There I discovered how to change my life<\/a>.<\/p>\n

So if you look at yourself and recognize “I\u00b4m lost,”<\/em> everything will change fast.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

9. THE ONLY THING YOU MUST FEAR<\/strong><\/h2>\n

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There is only one thing that will make you succeed or fail.<\/p>\n

Your reaction.<\/p>\n

Do you want another good definition of confidence?<\/p>\n

It\u00b4s reacting positively to your obstacles.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t control what happens, but it\u2019s what you do afterward what counts.<\/p>\n

So if you react to fear as something normal, you control your reaction. And so you get the power. Goodby adversity! <\/a>You will look at that imposing dog, or woman out of your league and do your job.<\/p>\n

And as a side-effect, you will look much cooler and be the person to follow.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

10. CONFIDENT MEN AND WOMEN RECOGNIZE THEIR  SITUATION <\/strong><\/h2>\n

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“Why do I lack confidence?”<\/em> ask many people.<\/p>\n

Because it\u00b4s NORMAL. I have fear, you have fear and everybody has fear. <\/p>\n

But we tend to think we are the only ones.<\/p>\n

Yet observe that most people don\u00b4t even pronounce the word fear<\/em>. Do you remember a conversation with your friends speaking about fear?<\/p>\n

So take the shortcut, recognize your fear.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

11. IT\u2019S NOT TOO LATE TO BOOST YOUR CONFIDENCE<\/strong><\/h2>\n

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Whether you think you are too shy, too old, too short, or whatever (again: you think) limits you can solve it.<\/p>\n

You can escape from the prison. Any goal is possible even if you think you are there lowest value person on earth.<\/p>\n

(Tip: you aren\u2019t.)<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

12. \u2026YET SELF-CONFIDENCE BUILDING IS URGENT<\/strong><\/h2>\n

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Your priority must be practicing confidence, the sooner you begin the better. Otherwise you\u00b4ll self-sabotage yourself without knowing it<\/a>. It\u2019s really a priority because this will change everything.<\/p>\n

Because what\u2019s the other option? What\u2019s the option of not facing fear?<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

13. WOMEN AND MEN WITH CONFIDENCE NEVER WAIT FOR THE PERFECT MOMENT<\/strong><\/h2>\n

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We tend to think great occasions will come in the future. Better times will come! Politicians will reinforce it so that you want them. You will try this and once you have a better job or win more money, you will try to be self-confident.<\/p>\n

Yet, how to be confident if you never train your courage muscle?<\/p>\n

Most people do the error of waiting for the perfect moment.<\/p>\n

But the perfect moment never comes. So don\u2019t wait for a better moment or your life will pass without achieving anything. The perfect moment is now. You have to commit errors and face fear. So in case of doubt follow only this:<\/p>\n

THE DOORWAY IS FEAR<\/p>\n

If something sounds too good from a third person, it\u00b4s a scam. Yet if you face fear, you will have a big reward. The worst that could happen? That you will earn a lot.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

14. HOW TO GAIN MORE CONFIDENCE: DON\u2019T MIX FEAR WITH COMMON SENSE<\/strong><\/h2>\n

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Many say fear is necessary to protect you. You need fear to avoid danger. So they don\u2019t say their opinion, they don\u2019t try the risky project, and they don\u2019t touch the animal. It\u2019s dangerous!<\/p>\n

Big error.<\/p>\n

Remember that if it hurts you get better.<\/p>\n

Otherwise your life gets worse.<\/p>\n

But don\u2019t mix up things. If there are stupid guys who want to fight in a bar, you don\u2019t need fear to not get into trouble. You only need common sense.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

15. FACE FEAR AND YOU WILL ELIMINATE ALL ITS SECONDARY EFFECTS (AND THEY ARE A LOT)<\/strong><\/h2>\n

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Confront fear and you will eliminate stress, strokes, and depression.<\/p>\n

It\u00b4s self-growth on steroids<\/a>!<\/p>\n

And you will also eliminate a personal life you hate because you don\u2019t do what you want.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

16. DON\u00b4T KNOW HOW TO BE CONFIDENT?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

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SIMPLY TRY!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Economic giants fail because nobody in the organization says the truth to protect their job. (Innovation in a corporate environment is a myth).<\/p>\n

So lead by example saying the truth despite it hurts and you will save at least your own company, or your own department.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

17. IT\u2019S JUST THAT SECOND WHERE YOU ACT UNDER PRESSURE WHAT WILL GIVE YOU A BETTER LIFE <\/strong><\/h2>\n

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You can have the knowledge and the contacts, but if you avoid the tough moment where you go to the scenario for that public speak or avoid the tense moment of approaching a new person, you will continue as a slave of your social circle, your boss and your monthly check.<\/p>\n

You\u00b4ll never learn how to be confident if you avoid the tough moment.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

18. SHOOT FIRST AND ASK LATER <\/strong>(THE ONLY MOMENT WHERE YOU CAN\u2019T THINK)<\/strong><\/h2>\n

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When facing tension don\u00b4t think. Put your mind in blank and take the step.<\/p>\n

Whether you want to cross a difficult moment playing basketball, managing your team, or practicing karate, there are always moments where you can\u2019t think. You must try whatever the outcome.<\/p>\n

You will have time enough to say sorry <\/em>later. So shoot first and ask later.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

19. BEWARE THE \u201cBUT I\u2019M A GOOD PERSON!\u201d TRAP<\/strong><\/h2>\n

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\u201cI finished my studies! I read the books! I already did the work! Why must I face tough situations? \u201c<\/em><\/p>\n

Excuse me but having a good job, good time management skills, and better ethics is not a secure recipe on how to be confident. It won\u00b4t substitute crossing the barrier of getting self-confident. Not if you want to save years of work. Don\u2019t be na\u00efve.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

20. YOU WILL BE LONELY AT FIRST (this Confident TED Talk will help you)<\/strong><\/h2>\n

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Yet follow the advice I give you to get confident, and everything will change. And faster than you think.<\/p>\n

This confidence TED talk<\/a> will motivate you if you feel lonely at first.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

21. AVOID OTHER\u00b4S ADVICE TO WIN SELF-CONFIDENCE<\/strong><\/h2>\n

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I\u2019m tired of hearing things like: \u201cI\u2019m in this place many years and my experience says it won\u2019t work.\u201d<\/em> Nonsense. Where\u00b4s the person who said that?<\/p>\n

In a shitty job with a shitty life.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

Exclusive Bonus:<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you want to download the complete article in PDF<\/strong> CLICK HERE<\/strong><\/p>\n

 –> <\/strong>HOW TO BE CONFIDENT: 100 WAYS<\/strong><\/a> <–<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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22. LAUGH WHEN SOMEONE SAYS HE ISN\u2019T AFRAID. HE\u00b4S LYING<\/strong><\/h2>\n

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When someone tries to hide his fear, he wears a mask. And he also fears what others think.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

23. ATTENTION! IT\u2019S EASY LIVING A FANTASY AND NOT TAKING THE MEASURES TO BECOME SELF-CONFIDENT<\/strong><\/h2>\n

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It\u2019s easy living a fantasy and continuing avoiding tension. Today you can play video games, eat as much cheap food as you want, and with a 10-dollar Netflix subscription be the hero of the movie you don\u2019t dare to live. And Internet with its free information will make you think you know it all. And then on Instagram you can fake an incredible lifestyle.<\/p>\n

But this will only deviate your attention from the real doorway: facing fear and becoming self-confident. Only this will make you happy.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

24. MANAGE THE BASICS OF SELF CONFIDENCE<\/strong><\/h2>\n

(THIS WILL MAKE EVERYTHING MUCH EASIER)<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Embrace stress as part of your ambitious journey. Manage the basics to feel well:<\/p>\n