Imagine yourself with self-confidence to:
…Speak in public.
…Ask that girl out on a date (and do it right).
…Make 7 figures thanks to being braver in business.
… Win friends thanks to your new people skills at a party or conference.
Imagine not being afraid!
And for that I’m going to give you 9 tips for unshakable self-confidence. Calm or calm in the storm. Rejection won’t affect you. Your life will be epic.
Now you feel frustrated… Many times you see the opportunity… but finally you doubt. Goodbye to the woman, man or career of your dreams! 99% of people never achieve their goals because they don’t know how to be self-confident.
Are you tired of missing opportunities?
Here are 9 QUICK TIPS to gain self-confidence. It will be like reading the best books on self-confidence.
If you know how to be self-confident, you’ll transform your life today. Maybe just one of these tips will be enough. Don’t have time to read this list? Well, then simply follow this advice:
Don’t be ashamed of being afraid. You are not alone. Sports stars, top scientists and everyone who made it far were also afraid just like you.
The fastest way to gain SELF-CONFIDENCE
is to know that everyone is afraid.
Whether you’re too shy, too old, or too short, if you want to be self-confident, you’ll find the advice that best suits your personality in the following list. So, congratulations in advance for reading this.
But first I’ll give you my definition of self-confidence. And it’s not politically correct, sorry.
“Self-confidence is what you sense after bottle of whiskey,
but with a clear brain and no secondary effects.”
And now the 9 tips:
1. BEHIND FEAR IS YOUR GREATEST SUCCESS.
If something scares you, it’s good. The man or woman of your dreams won’t show up if you stay comfortable. The project that will make you rich will also scare you. So your strategy is simple: if it scares you, you’re looking at your big break.
2. THE BEST ADVICE TO BE CONFIDENT IS….
Realize that others are scared too!
You are not alone. If you observe others, you will see that they are also afraid. And more than you, but your advantage is that you are acting to gain confidence (otherwise you wouldn’t be reading this).
3. IF YOU TRY TO HAVE SELF-CONFIDENCE AND FAIL IN THE ATTEMPT, YOU WILL ALSO WIN.
Only good things wait behind fear. If you try and fail, that’s good too. So don’t focus on the result. Focus on your new knowledge, something 95% of people never try.
4. EVERYONE HAD A LACK OF SELF-CONFIDENCE FIRST (ESPECIALLY THE PEOPLE YOU ADMIRE).
The Gandhis, the Michelangelos, the Joe Montanans, or anyone you admire also had fear. They failed and were rejected. But they kept facing fear. Keep trying was the difference.
5. THE OPTION OF NOT TRYING IS TO BE UNHAPPY.
There is a bottleneck you must cross. Fear. However, the other option is to fall short of your dream and grow old quickly.
6. INCREASE YOUR SELF-CONFIDENCE BY KNOWING THAT FEAR IS AN INHERITED MECHANISM (LIKE BEING HUNGRY).
You are not inferior. Fear is in your DNA. It developed over 100,000 years ago, to protect us when we had to hunt to survive. So it’s stupid not to recognize it.
7. MASTER THE FEELING FIRST
If you want to know how to become confident quickly, you must first feel the fear, I’m sorry. People chase self-confidence like it’s the Holy Grail. But to become confident, you first have to go through fear.
First you have to touch that imposing dog and talk to that imposing person. Only then will you see that it is possible and gain self-confidence.
To say that you are not afraid is to show off, as most people do. But this way they only hide their problem and make it bigger.
8. ARE YOU AT YOUR LOWEST POINT?
Well that’s a very good place to start for self-confidence. Desperation can be the best thing that happens to you. Because there you see a 100% pure quality truth. A truth so agonizing, that you will dedicate yourself body and soul to your most important goal.
When you stop lying to yourself and recognize that you are desperate, you will take action. And your life will change much faster starting from zero. There you will take exact action. You won’t say, “I’m going to do better.” You’ll take specific steps. You will read the specific books and develop the specific skills. You will stop lying to yourself.
If you look at yourself and recognize where you are, everything will change quickly.
9. THE ONLY THING YOU HAVE TO FEAR
There is only one thing that will make or break you.
(Want another good definition of self-confidence? Reacting positively to your obstacles).
You can’t control what happens to you, but you can control what you do next. So if you react to fear as normal, you will control your reaction. And so you will get all the power.
And as a side effect, you will be the person to follow.